Hog Posted August 13, 2005 Report Share Posted August 13, 2005 Would you forgive? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trippinoneastereggs Posted August 13, 2005 Report Share Posted August 13, 2005 Depends.when I was in hals a couple of years ago the girl i was seeing was shagging one of my flatmates for three weeks. All my flatmates knew but nobody told me. I dont speak to her or my flatmates anymore Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David Posted August 13, 2005 Report Share Posted August 13, 2005 i guess it would depend on the circumstances and how serious, did she just get drunk and snog a mate? or has she been shagging someone for weeks...ultimately, i couldnt trust anyone that would cheat, so it wouldnt lastDavid Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fluffy Posted August 13, 2005 Report Share Posted August 13, 2005 Yes, if it was a once off and he promised not to do it again. However, if it was more than once and esp if it was more than sex, i would make him pay....... dearly! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ()Papaspyrou() Posted August 13, 2005 Report Share Posted August 13, 2005 If she committed to doing a*a*, then yes.Otherwise I'd only settle for h**d. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catherine Posted August 13, 2005 Report Share Posted August 13, 2005 if he did it now. then no. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swingin' Ryan Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 i guess it would depend on the circumstances Agreed. However, I've had my fill, from now on I'm throwing fists...(obviously not at the girlfriend, that wouldn't be cool). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
succubitch Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 I'd make full use of my cabinet of weapons. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest MDP Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 i'd throw my heaviest juggling club at them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marillionboy Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 I could never forgive, and its strange because I could certainly understand how easy it is to succumb to it. The thing about cheating is, alcohol is not ever an excuse. People who claim it is are simply hiding behind a crap excuse and not taking responsibility. Drunk or sober you know what you're doing would break your partner's heart. if you're sober enough to have sex you are sober enough to remember you are attached.The other thing is that cheating rarely has "nothing to do with the person you're cheating on". Its usually the fact that you are doing something illicit that gives cheating the spice.What's more telling your partner to nsalve your own conscience is bloody selfish, people don't need to know things like that.I wouldn't ever have someone back who cheated on me because I've got too much self-respect and I'd be eaten up with jealousy, and yet I'm hardly a saint myself. That isn't hypocrisy, simply that I know that jealousy would eat me up.Of course if she cheated on me with another girl it would be different. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sue Denim.. Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 No .... never. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teabags Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 Yes' date=' if it was a once off and he promised not to do it again. However, if it was more than once and [b']esp if it was more than sex, i would make him pay....... dearly!what constitutes more than sex? golden showers and raising children? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lepeep Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 what constitutes more than sex? golden showers and raising children?I think she might have been talking about "getting intimate"...far worse than sex...remember, girls think differently to guys....remember the jam sketch?"I'm leaving you! you had sex with the girl who came to our party!""oh, ha ha, no no no, you misunderstand, I just raped her, she didn't want it"."oh, ahhh, that's alright then, sorry, do you forgive me for jumping to that conclusion ?"...(something like that anyway!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimr Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 I could never forgive' date=' and its strange because I could certainly understand how easy it is to succumb to it. The thing about cheating is, alcohol is not ever an excuse. People who claim it is are simply hiding behind a crap excuse and not taking responsibility. Drunk or sober you know what you're doing would break your partner's heart. if you're sober enough to have sex you are sober enough to remember you are attached.The other thing is that cheating rarely has "nothing to do with the person you're cheating on". Its usually the fact that you are doing something illicit that gives cheating the spice.What's more telling your partner to nsalve your own conscience is bloody selfish, people don't need to know things like that.I wouldn't ever have someone back who cheated on me because I've got too much self-respect and I'd be eaten up with jealousy, and yet I'm hardly a saint myself. That isn't hypocrisy, simply that I know that jealousy would eat me up.Of course if she cheated on me with another girl it would be different.[/quote']I think anyone who has woken up in a strangers house and whose last memory was ordering 2 bottles of wine and 2 shot glasses, will testify that you are being incredibily naive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimr Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 I think she might have been talking about "getting intimate"...far worse than sex...remember' date=' girls think differently to guys....remember the jam sketch?"I'm leaving you! you had sex with the girl who came to our party!""oh, ha ha, no no no, you misunderstand, I just raped her, she didn't want it"."oh, ahhh, that's alright then, sorry, do you forgive me for jumping to that conclusion ?"...(something like that anyway!)[/quote']I love the camera effects on that sketch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lime ruined my life Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 I think anyone who has woken up in a strangers house and whose last memory was ordering 2 bottles of wine and 2 shot glasses' date=' will testify that you are being incredibily naive.[/quote']i think if you drank that much you could probably be safe in the knowledge that nothing happened other than falling unconsious. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeid Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 i've done it, i've had it done. both sides suck.i'm such a jealous person now that i don't think i'd ever forgive anyone who cheated on me. i couldn't. it would eat me up. i couldn't trust a partner who did that and that would mean the bitter end. no trust = no relationship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fluffy Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 what constitutes more than sex? golden showers and raising children? If it was just sex, no feelings invovled i dont mind so much. where as if it was an affair, and he fell in love or had strong feelings for her, i would be gutted.i also would be upset if he snogged someone else too, but i am hoping none of this will ever happen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghostwriter Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 Part of me thinks that I am too strong willed, so I would tell my boyfriend to sling his hook. However, the other part of me KNOWS that I'd end up taking him back. But I'd only let that happen once. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teabags Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 If it was just sex' date=' no feelings invovled i dont mind so much. where as if it was an affair, and he fell in love or had strong feelings for her, i would be gutted.i also would be upset if he snogged someone else too, but i am hoping none of this will ever happen[/quote']so if he shagged some random bint whose name he doesnt even know and has no intention of speaking to/seeing again, that'd be okay.but if he snogged someone, you'd be upset? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demon Of The Fall Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 i forgive them, but i end it as well. if they are going to cheat on you and be fully aware that it will really hurt you they aint worth the hassle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stuart Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 I would love to say "No, I'd never forgive her, the cheating whore!" but as proved in the past, this never seems to be the case. It depends how strongly I feel about the girl, I guess. Also on how guilty she feels. If she came clean to me and was like "listen, I did a really stupid thing, I'm so sorry etc etc" I probably would forgive, basically because they had the guts to tell me and know they did wrong. If someone came up to me and was like "Your girlfriends cheating on you" it would probably be a very different case. In conclusion, fuck knows. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swingin' Ryan Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 Of course if she cheated on me with another girl it would be different.Why does this seem to be a general consensus from males?It generally means you are so revolting you've driven your girlfriend away, not just from you, but from the male race in general. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trippinoneastereggs Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 that actually scares me more. Cause if she decides she likes women, then there's no chance of you getting back together.PS one my my exes now lives and has a mortgage with her long time girlfriend. I was her last boyfriend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swingin' Ryan Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 PS one my my exes now lives and has a mortgage with her long time girlfriend. I was her last boyfriendAh well, she was probably that way inclined to start with, you can never tell.Although a skinhead and interest in dirt-bike riding is normally a clue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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