catherine Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 i hate my flat mate.she wont let my two bestfriends come and stay cause her friend is gona be here that week too.but we'd planned lots of fun stuff to do and its the only time they can come and visit for a while.and ive had to put up with her boyfriend staying everynight for 8 months without her checking with me.her parents own the flat but im the only one out of the three of us paying rent,any suggestions how im supposed to get round this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dayeth Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 tell her to fuck off Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trippinoneastereggs Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 Yeah, you pay rent, its as much your flat as it is hers. I dont even ask when I have people to stay, neither do my flatmates ask me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
threeornothing Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 I've never understood the concept of sharing a flat with people you don't exactly know/get on with.....solution: get your staff out the flat and set fire to it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catherine Posted March 21, 2006 Author Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 its her parents flat though. she told me her mate was staying in feb.but i dont see the problem. they would be staying in my room. we wont even be here half the time. but she said the flat aint got room for 6 people. and her parents wouldnt like it. but last time they stayed we had 5 folk and i didnt think it was over crowded. she said it was cause she couldnt use the living room. but when her mate is here im gona be stuck in my room even more so cause he is staying for a whole week. and i said it would only be 5 people cause he boyfriend could go stay at his own flat (which im sure his parents would not like him not staying at seeing hwo they bought him it) and she went mental at me suggesting she kicks him out for a week just so my two best friends can staygoing on about how none of her friends ever come to see her and this is a one off and telling me to rearrange it. but they cant come any other week :-( but they cant afford to stay in a BB or hotelARRRGGGG my dad says theres nothing i can do cause its her flat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catherine Posted March 21, 2006 Author Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 I've never understood the concept of sharing a flat with people you don't exactly know/get on with.....solution: get your staff out the flat and set fire to itim gona try find somewhere to stay asap.but i did know her and get on with her. and i thought stoke would only stay here once in a while.not every night for 8 months solid. even when he plays in edinburgh and gets home at 4am he comes here. yet i still pay half the phone bill and tv licence. when there is three of us sharing. if it was any other bills id have kicked up a fuss ages ago Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest MDP Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 confront the bitch, or give her a good bitch slappin'x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stuartmaxwell Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 just stop payign your rent for a while and then get asked to leavenae legal action and saving moneyscore Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trippinoneastereggs Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 get your staff out the flat and set fire to itNo wonder she says there's no room. You didnt mention that you had all those employees in there too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pogofish Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 Sounds like a good excuse for a party!50 or so gurning munters & a soundsystem ought to make your pals seem like small-beer to her then! Otherwise, remind her firmly of all the slack you have cut her over her BF etc & insist on having them stay.Good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Hon Jonda Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 Ask her parents since they own the flat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catherine Posted March 21, 2006 Author Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 im scared to confront her though. she started crying when she was saying they couldnt stay. all about how no one ever comes to see her.not once has she ever cleaned the bathroom or hoovered since i moved in. its totally crap. ive got to do everything. i dont know how to bring it up again. it seems that ive got no choice. they cant comeand im pissed off i cant go to the safari park with the guy i like. was gona be an amazing day trip with rhiannon and laura. grrrrr. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaseyBoi Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 Gaffa Tape a bitty oh tow ken and a cuboard should sort them out..... cmon its only a week forgodsake if u feed them once a day they will not die.....Or3 girls and a safari trip come stay with JaseyBoi............ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catherine Posted March 21, 2006 Author Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 if you donate £5 we'll take photos and show you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dayeth Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 I'd still go with my plan, she sounds like the worst person ever. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catherine Posted March 21, 2006 Author Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 but ive got to still live with her and go to uni with her and she'll turn everyone against me. and it doesnt solve the short term problem of getting rhiannon and laura to stay in two weeks. i hate ayr sometimes. and they make it fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smooth_groover Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 Just tell her to fuck off. Seriously. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catherine Posted March 21, 2006 Author Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 then what? be asked to move out and be homeless? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timson Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 its her parents flat right? Which means it's not your room-mates and since she pays absoultely nothing towards rent, as you say, surely it's more your flat than hers?confront her parents about this i'd say. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porter Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 I own my flat and i wouldn't dream of telling my flatmate who she can and can't have staying with her! You are paying rent and thus can have whoever you want to stay. If your tenantcy agreement says that you can't have people to stay then i guess you have to accept her decision, if not, then she can't do anything about it.xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hog Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 a) Print out this thread and show her it.b) Threaten her with Stuart Maxwellc) Hide some Semtex under her pillow and when she heads off to bed, detonate it.(Remember to be a safe distance away) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dayeth Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 then what? be asked to move out and be homeless?No. Deck her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hog Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 No. Deck her.Then fucking shoot her with an AK47:up: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WoodyRATM Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 Then fucking shoot her with an AK47:up:good plan 8) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stuartmaxwell Posted March 21, 2006 Report Share Posted March 21, 2006 .b) Threaten her with Stuart Maxwellkeep on trucking bawbag Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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