Penny Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 i'm exceedingly sorry for whinging but im upset and need to vent my frustration and anger and upsetedness somewhere..today.. the day before my 21st (which i've been excited about for ages) has been possibly the most confusing day i've had in ages..i've fallen out with my best friend because i told him i wasn't going to go out tonight because i wanted to be sober and fresh when i get up 2moro, and so i don't spoli my night out 2moro by suffering from a hangover.. and he's got all upset and angry and calling me unaccommodating..so we're not talking, i think.. he's not answering my calls.. and i don't understand..i thought he would have understood the fact that i didnt want to be hungover on my birthday.. but he's making me feel really upset and confused and numb. i said it was only a night out.. but he txt'd back sayin 'by no means is it just a night out'..i love my friends and i dont know why he's chosen to make a mountain out of a molehill.. especially the day before my birthday.. and now i dont even know if he's going to be at my party..i'm very saddon't call me emo, im just being a girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ollie Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 he fancies you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penny Posted August 29, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 he fancies boys.fact. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alvin Starclusk Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 he fancies youYep. If he comes out for your birthday tomorrow night with a wrapped present shaped suspiciously like a wang, that he won't move from his groin-al area, be careful, it's probably his wang. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest MDP Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 he fancies youi concur Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penny Posted August 29, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 see above..HE'S GAY. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RF Scott Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 maybe its his birthday night out, and you forgot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
threeornothing Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 Who needs friends when you have the internet? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobby Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 maybe he'd planned a surprise for you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alvin Starclusk Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 maybe he'd planned a surprise for youSee my earlier post... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marn Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 People go out these days? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
medichi Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 Answer is either a) he had something planned and fancies youor b) he's gay, and like all women and gays, is incapable of rational thought. They disrupt radar too, y'know.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hog Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 i'm exceedingly sorry for whinging but im upset and need to vent my frustration and anger and upsetedness somewhere..today.. the day before my 21st (which i've been excited about for ages) has been possibly the most confusing day i've had in ages..i've fallen out with my best friend because i told him i wasn't going to go out tonight because i wanted to be sober and fresh when i get up 2moro' date=' and so i don't spoli my night out 2moro by suffering from a hangover.. and he's got all upset and angry and calling me unaccommodating..so we're not talking, i think.. he's not answering my calls.. and i don't understand..i thought he would have understood the fact that i didnt want to be hungover on my birthday.. but he's making me feel really upset and confused and numb. i said it was only a night out.. but he txt'd back sayin 'by no means is it just a night out'..i love my friends and i dont know why he's chosen to make a mountain out of a molehill.. especially the day before my birthday.. and now i dont even know if he's going to be at my party..i'm very saddon't call me emo, im just being a girl.[/quote']Never speak to him again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penny Posted August 29, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 Never speak to him againbut what would make him act like that? its not because he fancies me, he's gay.. and he would have said if there was a surprise, becuase that would have made me go out... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Afro Droid Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 b) he's gay' date=' and like all women and gays, is incapable of rational thought. They disrupt radar too, y'know....[/quote']Medical fact! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaseyBoi Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 wow what a dillema right enough .... this post effected me so much i emmediatly wrote to dear dierdrie from the sun to see if she could help you.... Dear Dierdriei'm exceedingly sorry for whinging but im upset and need to vent my frustration and anger and upsetedness somewhere..today.. the day before my 21st (which i've been excited about for ages) has been possibly the most confusing day i've had in ages..i've fallen out with my best friend because i told him i wasn't going to go out tonight because i wanted to be sober and fresh when i get up 2moro, and so i don't spoli my night out 2moro by suffering from a hangover.. and he's got all upset and angry and calling me unaccommodating..so we're not talking, i think.. he's not answering my calls.. and i don't understand..i thought he would have understood the fact that i didnt want to be hungover on my birthday.. but he's making me feel really upset and confused and numb. i said it was only a night out.. but he txt'd back sayin 'by no means is it just a night out'..i love my friends and i dont know why he's chosen to make a mountain out of a molehill.. especially the day before my birthday.. and now i dont even know if he's going to be at my party..i'm very saddon't call me emo, im just being a girl.Her reply which i found quite interesting was thisDear analy retented laddiehe fancies youhe fancies boys.fact.Yep. If he comes out for your birthday tomorrow night with a wrapped present shaped suspiciously like a wang, that he won't move from his groin-al area, be careful, it's probably his wang.i concursee above..HE'S GAY.maybe its his birthday night out, and you forgotWho needs friends when you have the internet?maybe he'd planned a surprise for you Answer is eithera) he had something planned and fancies youorb) he's gay, and like all women and gays, is incapable of rational thought. They disrupt radar too, y'know....So morale is maybe the guys/gals in this forum do know wat they talking about Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penny Posted August 29, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 wow. you're shit at this game. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frosty Jack Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 today.. the day before my 21st .....don't call me emo' date=' im just being a girl.[/quote']Well, if he was expecting to go out with you tonight, he was obviously looking forward to sharing a special celebration with you. By telling him you now don't want to bother, you're effectively saying to him that he's not required for your day to be special. He wanted to make you happy and give you a great time, you've just told him that all you expected to get from tonight was a hangover. It must feel like he's just tried to give you a present, and you've just handed it back.I could be completely wrong, but that's how I'd see it. All is not lost though. Keep trying to speak to him, you really need to be communicating your feelings both ways. It will be fine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penny Posted August 29, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 Well' date=' if he was expecting to go out with you tonight, he was obviously looking forward to sharing a special celebration with you. By telling him you now don't want to bother, you're effectively saying to him that he's not required for your day to be special. He wanted to make you happy and give you a great time, you've just told him that all you expected to get from tonight was a hangover. It must feel like he's just tried to give you a present, and you've just handed it back.I could be completely wrong, but that's how I'd see it. All is not lost though. Keep trying to speak to him, you really need to be communicating your feelings both ways. It will be fine.[/quote']but he knows that my big birthday night out is 2moro..i dont understand why he is being so cold towards me.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fluffy Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 maybe he had a bad day and wanted to unwind or something?either way, it is your birthday tommorow, and you dont have to go out when friends want too. he is most likely in a huff and will come around, so dont get too stressed. No one should make you feel that bad about not wanting to go out the day before your b/day (unless its his)dont pander to him, you have tried to help but he dosnt want it. speak to him tommorow or let him come to you.Have a nice b/day though, and dont let this spoil it? Got any big plans? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeid Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 Dear Dierdriesorry to burst your bubble, but its Deidre Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Taylor_dB Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 Happy Birthday btw. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Camie Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 to be fair calling that a disaster day is a bit too extreme considering the damage Hurricane Katrina has done today. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penny Posted August 29, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 to be fair calling that a disaster day is a bit too extreme considering the damage Hurricane Katrina has done today.well it was a disaster for me.. ive had a shitty year, and wanted to start afresh from today.. and i just want my bestest friend, who means the world to me.. to be there with me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
succubitch Posted August 29, 2005 Report Share Posted August 29, 2005 Did you ever think that he might want to spend some quality time with you on or around your birthday before your big night out, when your going to be around all these other people; seeing as you said that you're best friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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