rach Lexuz Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 well sometimes if you have to finish with someone a text or phonecall is the best because it breaks both your hearts face to face and you end up sleeping together when you both know the right way is to be apart. aww Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest pogo Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 pretend you have never met them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
therandomblonde Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 Have one of those deep long conversation where you express your true feelings. Tell your partner the problem and what they can do to sort that, and also ask them if they have a problem with you and if you need to change anythingBut shouldn't you have long deep conversations where you express your true feelings anyway from time to time...if it's a relationship?? You should always express your true feelings to a partner if you're in love,no?? Am i abit old fashioned??As for breaking up with someone..i guess it depends on the individual situation... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dallas Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 Originally posted by pogo:pretend you have never met them There is a new film about that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sludge Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 texts are ok if the girl is a complete pyscho or timmy. the hardest thing ive ever done was split up with my girlfriend face to face. its awfull.awwww and completing streets of rage on 1 player. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emma Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 Theres never a *nice* way to do it....whatever you do, is still has the same outcome. But i'm really bad at breaking up with people, and always seem to mess everything up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan G Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 Originally posted by neil ex:BEST WAY -MAN - "here you go bitch, *punch* I said COOK my dinner - not fucking burn it!"WOMAN - "I'm sorry, the timer didn't...."MAN - "SHUT UP...or the belt will come off again!" That's pretty twisted Neil ex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 Originally posted by Craig:I completely agree with you..although I know from personal experience, that there can be barriers preventing people to sticking to their own morals...for me, it was a mix between being a long distance away, and thus face to face was almost impossible.. Not strictly true, but I forgive you! And understand! x ps. this isnt a bitchy dig i promise! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
threeornothing Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 Don't break up. Have kids and stay together.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
confession Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 Originally posted by rach Lexuz:well sometimes if you have to finish with someone a text or phonecall is the best because it breaks both your hearts face to face and you end up sleeping together when you both know the right way is to be apart. aww know how that feels...ummm...'I can't stand the distance, really, you ignored me when it was our last night together...I can't stand your hair...your too obsessive, it was cute to start with but I don't need your arms to support my every move....FINE, I HATE YOU TOO!!...it's not meant to be'But when your together for a wee while (8 months is a long time pour moi) its hard to see yourself without that person.:O Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mo-Ha Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 If you realy want to finish it then face to face is the best way. It takes guts and it's a very long process but in the end everyone is better for it. However it does not awlways happen that way. Only split up with one person over the internet and it sucked. Big time. X-( And what's worst is there is no 'break up, no hard feelings' huggles. Just "Well i have to go now, night xx" Nah too good. Face to face is hard, but you'd feel better after. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cookie Monster Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 Well theres one person who's posted on this thread who knows just the best way to break up with someone! Worst place is the airport, cos its not lekka for guys to cry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mouse Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 Originally posted by feeble!:Haha, if you want to finish with someone who's been a bastard to you then just go for the e-mail/text approach. I guarantee you'll feel good for the next week if you do that. And don't even make it nice That's fair enough as long as they have been a bastard to you, luckily for me the majority of women I've been with were bitchy to me. I've been dumped face to face twice, the rest of the times I've finished it myself for my own benefit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mo-Ha Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 Originally posted by Cookie Monster:Well theres one person who's posted on this thread who knows just the best way to break up with someone! Worst place is the airport, cos its not lekka for guys to cry! I get so scared when my friends cry. I never know what to do. I'm the worst in thous situations. So when the guy cries I'm like WTF ?( ?( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhiannon Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 My last boyfriend, after i found out that he was still going out with his ex, i asked him to meet up with me several times to see if he would admit it and to finish to his face, but he kept making up excuses and denying that he was still going out witht his other girl, so i finished with him firstly over the phone, then through text after he wouldn't actually take it in that I finished with him and still thought we were going out, because of course, he was being true to em *rolls eyes* after that, when he still wouldnt believe me that i wanted it to end and that i knew he was going out with his "ex", me and the girl arranged to meet up, then meet up with him and let him explain his way out of it pfft boysDo you think that if someone cheats once, then they'l do it again? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mouse Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 Definately, a cheat is always a cheat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emma Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 Originally posted by Rhiannon:Do you think that if someone cheats once, then they'l do it again? I have never waited round to find out. that's a good question though, i wonder if they ever learn their lesson? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mouse Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 Probably when they mature as adults, certainly at this age people don't "change". I've learned from experience Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catherine Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 hopfully they do... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dazed&confuzzed Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 text is worst-'hi eil, sorry but its over.' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Lucy* Posted February 26, 2004 Author Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 Thats a bit short and not very sweet Anyone ever done it in a letter?Angry letters are good fun to write especially if you've been treated bad! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catherine Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 i once wrote a really long letter.. spilled my guts out and then the guy told me he didnt even read it properly.that hurt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mouse Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 I tend to write a rather long email! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tav Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 Originally posted by Mouse:Definately, a cheat is always a cheat. Not true. I think you can do stuff when you are younger and then when you get a bit older realise that it is not the correct way to behave. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
therandomblonde Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 I write long letters to people when they're upset or have upset me but i'd never break up with someone through a letter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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