Calm down. No-one refused to change your name, Neil asked you if you were sure, and he's waiting for a reply from you. No-one's blaming anyone or showing preference for anyone over anyone else. But quite a few threads have been veering off course into irrelevant pish lately, and it's our job to stop that, otherwise they just become unreadable. Like I said, no drama, but it doesn't hurt to just have a little think before you post, and consider whether you're contributing to a thread, or putting others off.