Guest ASH Posted May 12, 2004 Report Share Posted May 12, 2004 A bit of advice, drop it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fli$ Posted May 12, 2004 Report Share Posted May 12, 2004 This post has been so entertaining to the no-life reader like myself! Almost as good as Trisha! Slightly dropped in amusment with last couple of posts though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foreskin Ninja Posted May 12, 2004 Report Share Posted May 12, 2004 Originally posted by Salty: I wont do what people ive never even met tell me. Tell that to the judge, anarchist.FUCK THE POLICE&&&& Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imprinted Posted November 29, 2004 Report Share Posted November 29, 2004 Wow' date=' scandal!This has turned into a real good read, and very good points being made.I totally agree with Heather on this one. Your (Salty, if you're still reading this) parents probably didn't want to tell you truth before they thought you could handle it. I have cousins aged 17 and 14 who are adopted, and things like that, along with death, are just not things you'd want to tell kids about in fear of hurting them. My cousin who's 17 treats my auntie like shit, despite her giving him a great childhood which he wouldn't have had if he was still in a children's home. And I believe the problems he now causes is because he was told when he was about 12/13 that he was adopted.[/quote']well i was told i was adopted when i was 3/4 - I was old enough to understand even then so i don't know why people use it as an excuse for misbehaving. I know I've done immature stupid shit (and got away with it sometimes - wahey!) but other times i've been caught, accepted my fate (and punishment) and got on with it. It's been my choice's and my behaviour. not the result of me being adopted. it's a poor excuse and i don't approve of it being used as an excuse... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marky_D Posted November 29, 2004 Report Share Posted November 29, 2004 less than a month before i got accepted to join the RAF i was filling in one of their forms with my mum and found out my bro with actually my step bro! i have another bro i havent seen in yearsi hardly know any of my dads side of the familybut my family is my family and i love them so deal with it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lepeep Posted November 29, 2004 Report Share Posted November 29, 2004 ... Fuckin cunts.aye, that's tight....imagine them worrying about you like that.if you were dead in a ditch, I am sure they would have said "aye, tailt her, stupid beyatch". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
connie Posted November 29, 2004 Report Share Posted November 29, 2004 Why has this thread been ressurected?It caused all kinds of trouble at the time, if I remember rightly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Milner Posted November 29, 2004 Report Share Posted November 29, 2004 This is an awesome thread!!! hahaIm sure everyone at somepoint has lied to their parents about something but then thats what you do isnt it??as for the rest of this thread......haha, pathetic get over yourselves. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Tristen Posted November 29, 2004 Report Share Posted November 29, 2004 Its all about responsibility.Your parents have a duty and a responsibility AS parents to keep you under a certain degree of rules. Your not supposed to like it, to son/daughter is, and in a weird way I'm sure the parents don't like doing it, but it is necessary to develop certain positive charachter traits. It is natural for teenagers to rebel slightly against that authority and try and do things they're not supposed to, but at the end of the day if you are caught you can use it as a valuable self lesson. Try thinking about it as a chance to learn to take responsibility for your actions, rather than simply blaming the parents.If you break a rule, wether it be one set by parents in your house, or the law in the country you have to accept that if you are caught it is fully YOUR responsibility, not the person that catches you or enforces the rule. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hog Posted November 29, 2004 Report Share Posted November 29, 2004 I think at 27 years old I can do as I please:cheers: One day you will be able to do that! and it rocks!God I cant remember typing that at all!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Amy* Posted November 29, 2004 Report Share Posted November 29, 2004 well i was told i was adopted when i was 3/4 - I was old enough to understand even then so i don't know why people use it as an excuse for misbehaving. I know I've done immature stupid shit (and got away with it sometimes - wahey!) but other times i've been caught' date=' accepted my fate (and punishment) and got on with it. It's been my choice's and my behaviour. not the result of me being adopted. it's a poor excuse and i don't approve of it being used as an excuse...[/quote']Aye, I'm not trying to say it's the ultimate excuse, you're proof it's not. I'm not one to make assumptions because I'm not in the position to, but what my cousin did (not so much now, he's in the army) was definitely rebelling to his mummy's secret.In terms of Salty's behaviour... who gives a shit now? This thread was good at the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
calum Posted November 29, 2004 Report Share Posted November 29, 2004 I know a guy whose dad died a few years back, and he is still causing problems for all involved with him. He has been expelled from two schools and should be expelled from ours too. What makes it worse is that he is intelligent, and so is able to be a manipulative arsehole. My mate has to clear up the shit that this dude causes. However, if anyone criticises the guy, they are quickly in huge trouble. And his mum absolves herself of any blame by saying, "He needs a father." Why is this fair? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest HARRY Posted November 29, 2004 Report Share Posted November 29, 2004 My parents know i bullshit to them all the time, so they just dont make a big deal out of it anymoreAnd for getting grounded for staying at the wrong person's house when you are about 17 is pretty hilarious, I havent been grounded since primary:laughing: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Milner Posted November 29, 2004 Report Share Posted November 29, 2004 Its all about responsibility.Your parents have a duty and a responsibility AS parents to keep you under a certain degree of rules. Your not supposed to like it' date=' to son/daughter is, and in a weird way I'm sure the parents don't like doing it, but it is necessary to develop certain positive charachter traits. It is natural for teenagers to rebel slightly against that authority and try and do things they're not supposed to, but at the end of the day if you are caught you can use it as a valuable self lesson. Try thinking about it as a chance to learn to take responsibility for your actions, rather than simply blaming the parents.If you break a rule, wether it be one set by parents in your house, or the law in the country you have to accept that if you are caught it is fully YOUR responsibility, not the person that catches you or enforces the rule.[/quote']Very well said mate.At the end of the day if you decide to fuck around be ready to get punished. Thats what happens in life kids unfortunately. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hog Posted November 30, 2004 Report Share Posted November 30, 2004 I know a guy whose dad died a few years back' date=' and he is still causing problems for all involved with him. He has been expelled from two schools and should be expelled from ours too. What makes it worse is that he is intelligent, and so is able to be a manipulative arsehole. My mate has to clear up the shit that this dude causes. However, if anyone criticises the guy, they are quickly in huge trouble. And his mum absolves herself of any blame by saying, "He needs a father." Why is this fair?[/quote']Maybe he has been very emotionally scarred? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spitshine Sonata Posted November 30, 2004 Report Share Posted November 30, 2004 it's all very well saying that they are "emotionally scarred". but your own personal problems are no excuse to be making other people's lives a living hell. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
purplefrodo Posted November 30, 2004 Report Share Posted November 30, 2004 my life in my parents eyes is a twisted web of lies Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jake Wifebeater Posted November 30, 2004 Report Share Posted November 30, 2004 it's all very well saying that they are "emotionally scarred". but your own personal problems are no excuse to be making other people's lives a living hell.Spot on. I am as sympathetic as anyone else until people make things other people's problems. As the old saying goes, "it's your shit, you roll in it". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spitshine Sonata Posted November 30, 2004 Report Share Posted November 30, 2004 Spot on. I am as sympathetic as anyone else until people make things other people's problems. As the old saying goes' date=' "it's your shit, you roll in it".[/quote']yeah totally. there used to be a guy in my class at school who had "problems" and i remember having a cup of boiling water thrown over me for no reason when he took a strop, and me being told to stop making a fuss about it. and the same guy threatened my friend with a knife in home ec and she was pretty much told the same. we all have problems. some worse than others yes, but i don't think it's fair when people use their problems as an excuse to be total cunts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Tristen Posted November 30, 2004 Report Share Posted November 30, 2004 There are two types of people with problems:Self-Destructive people who let their problems damage their own lives and destructive people who'd rather destroy their neighbours life than their own.Selfish cunts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest tv tanned Posted November 30, 2004 Report Share Posted November 30, 2004 boy I was hostile under a previous user-name.Stand by everything though. Why the hell was this resurrected anyway? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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