Guest Bob Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 What's more wrong:A single guy sleeping with a girl in a relationship, or a guy already in a relationship sleeping around?Yes, I know that in ideal world neither thing would happen, but just say for chance either of these things were to happen, who would you judge more harshly? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest MarkJDelaney Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 I would judge a guy in a relationship sleepin' around "more harshly" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Milner Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 i have always thought if someone cheats they obvioulsy didnt want to be in the relationship that much in the first place, so i guess that works for both, the guy cheating is worse than the guy sleeping with a girl who is cheating. imo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Camie Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 Both are morally objectionable' date=' but the sad truth is that it wouldn't be the guy that was judged at all. In the eyes of his "peers", he would be lauded in both cases. The girl would bear the brunt of most of the criticism. [/quote']I thought that was a dated idea. Most people I know would criticise both people.It's quite obvious that the guy sleeping around is more immoral as it is implying that he doesn't have feelings for any of girls he is sleeping with where as although the guy is cheating with the girl there is a possibility that there is some deep feelings there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Untitled Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 the person in the relationship should be on the end of the tail whippin in my opinionthe are the ones with more to lose from their stupidity Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
threeornothing Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 All I know is that if a single guy slept with my girlfriend, she'd be sleeping on the coach and he'd be sleeping in intensive care.....if he survived. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
connie Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 For God's sake Bob, don't you know when to just LEAVE IT ALONE? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Camie Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 apparently not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spoonie Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 ooh, what's happened?btw. the non-single person gets the beating!/x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swingin' Ryan Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 I assume you mean which of the guys should be judged more harshly, in which case I say the single guy who sleeps with the girl in a relationship, because he's the one that's messing up a relationship that has nothing to do with him. At least the other guys messing up his own relationship.Either way, if my girlfriend was involved I'd be Al Caponing him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lepeep Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 Either way' date=' if my girlfriend was involved I'd be Al Caponing him.[/quote']how patriarchal.If I found my partner cheating, I'd be fucked off with her, and be glad to know that I'd found out, get shot of her, and move on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
framheim Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 yea violence solves fuck all, you'd get shot of the cheater and move on. a relationship is a commitment and any cheating is shit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
threeornothing Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 how patriarchal.If I found my partner cheating' date=' I'd be fucked off with her, and be glad to know that I'd found out, get shot of her, and move on.[/quote']But there are a lot of weak minded little girlies out there who are desperate to prove themself to all the wrong people...there is also something called alchohol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swingin' Ryan Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 how patriarchal.If I found my partner cheating' date=' I'd be fucked off with her, and be glad to know that I'd found out, get shot of her, and move on.[/quote']And then you'd find the guy and break his legs....I understand completely. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Ghost Of Fudge Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 if i found my partner cheating, i'd write an album about it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Milner Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 For God's sake Bob' date=' don't you know when to just LEAVE IT ALONE?[/quote']leave what?Its a simple fucking question. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Cowboy Dan Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 Bob Knight sits and wonders if there are any other ways he can become more of a pathetic twat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest tv tanned Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 there's something unfortunate about people who have never been in a specific situation rushing to apply broad-brush condemnation.equally, i have never understood the mentality of the man who starts a fight with a guy who hits on his girlfriend in a club.Most of the time the guy is probably unaware that the girl is attached.I also find the idea of someone, who lists a band called Knife Rape and a band named after a missing grandfather from Ellon in his list of bands, calling someone else a pathetic twat richly ironic.But then I am not privvy to the "obvious" underlying theme of this thread. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penny Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 shouldn't all parties involved be to blame?the single guy sleeping with an attached girl.. both of them should know to stop it becuase neither of them have the right to sleep with each other.the attached guy sleeping around (who WILL get caught) with a load of girls, he's probably (not always) bragging to his conquests that he has a girlfriend but 'he'll make an exception for you, because you're so pretty and i want in your panties' therefore the girls and the boy should know that its morally wrong.but if someone is cheating, they should be respectful enough to come clean, and tell the truth and feel the consequences.i bellieve if an 'affair' becomes very emotional and inter-linked (i.e love), then the other partner in the relationship shouldnt stand in the lovers way, because you never know when you are going to find your life-long partner. does that make sense? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Milner Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 Blah blah blah im still bitter...........*sigh* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Cowboy Dan Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 Why would I be bitter? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penny Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 becuase you washed in lemon juice this morning? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jester1470 Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 Why would I be bitter?Because you looked in a mirror ? Being you would make me bitter with the world...CheersStuart Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Zeenat Aman Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 Because you looked in a mirror ? Being you would make me bitter with the world...CheersStuartA bit of a bitter dig I see before me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest tv tanned Posted July 29, 2005 Report Share Posted July 29, 2005 Why would I be bitter?Because you're not like the Murphy's? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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