Guest you_nazi Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 a perfect relationship would benot seeing each other ALL the time, total trust, no jealousy (with opposite sex friends, etc) freedom,being able to be yourself and not feel you need to change for your boy/girlfriendunderstanding of each others differences and rational thinkingequal effort from both sides in the relationship no romantic dates. soppy romantic dates are for losers. just being together should be romantic enough.yeah and when you are together, it should feel amazing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Composed Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 a perfect relationship would benot seeing each other ALL the time' date=' total trust, no jealousy (with opposite sex friends, etc) freedom,being able to be yourself and not feel you need to change for your boy/girlfriendunderstanding of each others differences and rational thinkingequal effort from both sides in the relationship hahaha>no romantic dates. soppy romantic dates are for losers.<< True tnhouygh>>just being together should be romantic enough.yeah and when you are together, it should feel amazing.[/quote']You should get on with their parents too! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sue Denim.. Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 So what about it then girls' date=' do you prefer a guy who puts as much effort into a relationship as you, or do you prefer to be almost completely in control, or vica versa?I am finding all this very interesting.What is the perfect relationship? ( well at least your views on what a perfect relationship is, as everyone differs )[/quote']Steve, you are starting to sound like Robert Kilroy Silk in daytime TV mode. I'm moving away slowly now..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skubbs Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 Oh and hayley' date=' hows things with will, good i hope, just so long as you know i am always here for the rebound lol Love ya[/quote'] LOL YOU HYPOCRITE!! lol, I just remembered all your efforts to get me to cheat on Will ha ha ha typical.... btw your girfriend cheated on you cos you were what 300 miles apart? lol try someone closer to home... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest tv tanned Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 despite the fact that this thread has the feeling of a bad daytime TV show, I shall make forth:I have both cheated and been cheated upon.In my opinion I felt worse when I cheated because I could see the hurt I had caused.Oh, and Mo, fiance is the female word, fiance would be what you were looking for Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lepeep Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 Jesus this thread is taking off better than i thought' date=' its was just an experiment to see how many had been cheated on and what they felt, and how it could be avoided in the future lol.And hiya hayley i am indeed a member of this sweet website, i am hurt by your statement that i am young and naive, but it is to true.I have yet to fail in the bedroom department i wont go into detail, i will spare you that lol.Anyways people keep the coments coming in.[/quote']this thread is the sort of thread that confirms how old I think I am. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NARC Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 The girls ive met are too clingy. Once recent one in particular, one day i just didnt miss her anymore and ended it because it would save "heartbreak" later. Maybe thats cruel but theres no point in being with someone if you dont want to be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deepdrinker Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 Well I myself have been cheated twice and both were long term relationships but the last one to cheat was my last gf and we were engaged and she decided to sleep with a friend of mine i had never felt so violent in all my life i nearly put my bro in hospital coz i was that upseat i lost trust in two people that day that was a while ago and me and my ex r both closer friends than ever and we have moved on i wish it haddn't happened that way but i am happier now, although we were far apart she lives in middlesbrough i live up here.Deepdrinker Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UFB Posted February 3, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 Hayley i am not really taking into consideration the long ditance relationship i have just come out of, i am talking about another two past relationships where i have been cheated on.And yes you are right this thread is starting to sound like a bad daytime programme, and didn't kilroy go to prison or die?Anyway people keep your replys coming in, i am always interested in how cheating and cheaters can be avoided.Cheers steve Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wishbone G Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 if you have had 2 relationships where you got cheated on, and what appears to be your last 'successful' relationship was... long distance.Surely, dude, you should be taking a look to see what you are doing wrong Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UFB Posted February 3, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 i have and i cannot think what i have done wrong, i have searched my brain for things i could of been doing wrong but unsuccessfully.so if anyone has any ideas on how i can find out what i have been doing wrong then please tell me so it can be avoided in the future.Or people that have cheated can tell me what their partner was doing wrong so i can get a trend of things that people do wrong in relationships.All points of view are great.keep em comingCheers steve Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest tv tanned Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 i have and i cannot think what i have done wrong' date=' i have searched my brain for things i could of been doing wrong but unsuccessfully.so if anyone has any ideas on how i can find out what i have been doing wrong then please tell me so it can be avoided in the future.Or people that have cheated can tell me what their partner was doing wrong so i can get a trend of things that people do wrong in relationships.All points of view are great.keep em comingCheers steve[/quote']perhaps having a slightly morbid voyeuristic tendency toward tales of infidelity in relationships is a turn off for chicks? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sue Denim.. Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 And yes you are right this thread is starting to sound like a bad daytime programme' date=' and didn't kilroy go to prison or die?[/quote']*Slaps head* Actually Kilroy is a reluctant MEP and leader of his new Veritas party. Personally I would rather him dead also. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sue Denim.. Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 Oh' date=' and Mo, fiance is the female word, fiance would be what you were looking for [/quote']From a male point of view towards the female she is more of a Financ than a Fiance! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sludge Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 single life all the way. if you fall in love with someone youll just have to live with the fact that your life will be diluted for then next few years. put up barriers!!!!!run away!!!dont listen to people like Dr Phil and Jenny jones. hopefully youll escape long term for a while. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wishbone G Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 Just out of interest, did you get your last girlfriend by propositioning all the female members of a message board - like your first post in this thread? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sludge Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 instead of a long term relationship in your young years why dont you try the "adopt a slag project".you really cant go wrong with a slag. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest tv tanned Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 Anyway people keep your replys coming in' date=' i am always interested in how cheating and cheaters can be avoided.[/quote']By people being faithful? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hog Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 this thread is the sort of thread that confirms how old I think I am.lol, me too.I cant say that in a serious relationship that a guy has to be a mind reader. Not all women are like that IMHO. Perhaps women just prefer a man who likes a bit of intuition and forward thinking. My last girl friend said that one of the nicest things I would do would be to wash the dishes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UFB Posted February 3, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 erm no i did not meet my x girlfriend by a thread like have posted on here, that was just a rather childish joke.And as for the single life don't you just get board of it after a while, i know i sure do, i wouldn't really class tehn as long term relationships, and if they turned out that way then it was by accident.And thanks for telling me about kilroy, i to think the world would be a better place if he had passed to the otherside, his infernal ranting is most annoying.Keep em comingCheers steve Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Jake Wifebeater Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 My last girl friend said that one of the nicest things I would do would be to wash the dishesWhat a wild, tempestuous, rollercoaster of a relationship that must have been. An infinite cornucopia of adrenalin-fuelled endorphin-rush culminating in a kaleidoscopic cavalcade of unbridled passion and rambunctious cavorting. It had to end, it was too explosive to sustain. Poor Hoglet, you must have been worn out after all that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sue Denim.. Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 Steve it may be your avatar or something but it's like..... I dunno, are you a robot? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hog Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 What a wild' date=' tempestuous, rollercoaster of a relationship that must have been. An infinite cornucopia of adrenalin-fuelled endorphin-rush culminating in a kaleidoscopic cavalcade of unbridled passion and rambunctious cavorting. It had to end, it was too explosive to sustain. Poor Hoglet, you must have been worn out after all that.[/quote']It couldnt get more exiting than that lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wishbone G Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 Keep em comingWell that would certainly help!(sorry, couldnt resist) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Tristen Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 I'm a fairly forgiving person for the most part, but I think someone I was seeing sleeping with someone else would drive me utterly insane. Infact I think I'd probably end up with a sword at their throat or something typically upset Tristen over dramatic like that.To the best of my knowledge I've never been cheated on, and I tend to find things out so I'm fairly happy that people have been faithful, except one, who I guess atleast had the deceny to dump me 5 mintues before As for cheating, the subject gets hazy due to some confusion about what both partys though the relationship was, eg I thought it was over so went and did whatever I wanted, they didnt, but in terms of full on cheating, nope, never have.I think the worst thing I've ever done was do stuff with someone I knew had a boyfriend, something I normally never allow myself to do wether I know him or not... a matter of guy loyalty i guess. If all guys swore never to do stuff with someone who has a boyfriend, they'd never be able to cheat on us, but there we go, will never happen. Anyway despite not knowing the guy I actually a long time on feel really shit about it to be honest.But yeah, I hope I'm never betrayed like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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