To be perfectly honest, its not so much what you look like, its how comfortable you are and how you carry yourself. Someone who is content is more attractive than someone who's overly self-concious. I think bigger guys are lovely (best hugs ever) - but only if they like how they look and arn't all like ''Oooh I'm going to cut out the pies'' like folk at my work, cos that is fucking annoying. However,v.skinny guys can look equally as good provided they arn't going to be an arse about it. No-one wants to hang about with a depressed and emancipated bastard. As for the girls, I do think v.skinny girls look beautiful (I would like to be like that myself but I love food too much and I can't be arsed anyway). Beth Ditto is ''cool'' because she just doesn't give a shit; she's out to have fun and not let anyone piss her off. There is no perfect body/man/woman, there are so many more aspects which make up a person. We're all made to look a certain way and be different. If everyone starved themselves and looked the same it would be one shite world, says me whos tucking into a chinese right now. EYOY.