You're absolutely right. I will say that we all called him out on it, individually and as a group, many, many times but yeah we let him get away with too much for too long. I don't know what he's like nowadays, I haven't had more than a couple of passing conversations with him over the last few years, but hopefully getting married and having kids has made him grow up a bit, have a bit of self-reflection and start taking responsibility for his actions.