A friend of mine from college is gay...and no, he is not a fashion accessory, infact i didn't find out he was gay until about 6 or 7 months after i met him. A few months ago or so I was asking him, you know, how he knew he was gay. He told me he doesn't really know, all he knows is he is repulsed by a naked woman's anatomy but likes a man's. It may not be "natural" or "right" but he can't help the way he feels, and neither can anybody else in that position. So no-one really has the right to question it - each to their own.. To him thats the way it is, we speak about "relationships" and the rest,just the same as I would with a straight friend. He just doesn't make his sexuality an issue, and neither does anybody else. Thats the way it should be. Sexuality along with many other areas of predjudice just shouldn't be made into an issue, good or bad. Fair enough say "children shouldn't be exposed to this" but there's a lot worse things they could be exposed to...and are on a daily basis. I don't particularly enjoy witnessing homosexual couples continously being all over each other and sticking their togues down each other's throats, but I don't enjoy heterosexual couples doing that either. There's a time and a place for everything no matter what sexuality you are.