bitchygirl

If nothing else, ID cards will mean the end to underage drinking in the uk.

Just want too say thanks to everyone who posted...it's helped me cope with something i never thought i'd have too. Thanks!

What's wrong with it?

Also, if you don't care, don't post?

Yeah they're band-aids. Oh how I laughed to read in the paper 'President Mows Down Police Officer With Bicycle'

Muahahahaha

It is a mental health issue. It;s a symptom of Borderline Personality Disorder (not saying all harmers have this). It's related to bipolar and clinical depression. Theres loads of stuff on the net about it.

^^^If it did would it not make anyone who has peircings self harmers?

I think it would count if they did it to themselves

It's ok Keira, neither of us live in Aberdeen we're in America, I joined the site when I lived in Aberdeen. Noone will know her.

Well sir' date=' if you were to put them in a padded cell with no implements to cut themselves do you think they could?[/quote']

What would that acheive? Nothing. It;s not the cutting thats the issue its the reason behind it. And yes, they probably could. Sascha told me she does it with her nails if she's got no implements.

People who show off their scars are trying to get attention

Well, maybe some people, but Sascha doesn't actually show hers to anyone. I saw by mistake. Having known her for three years, she's cut for five, and I've never seen nothing on her before. She always wears long sleeves or lots of bracelets.

I dont know about you but when I see some chick with scars all up her arms I immediately stay away

Considering your other views i'd say thats a good thing, People who do this don't need to socialise with people with those views.

^^^*agrees*

1. If you had a tail what colour would it be? Pink and fluffy

2. If someone offered you the power to read peoples minds, would you take it and why? No, because I'd rather not get hurt by what people think.

3. Should I get a snake for my new flat that I haven't yet got? YES!!! I've always wanted a snake!

4. Why is everything so dreary just now? Is it just me or is anyone else feeling it...It's Aberdeen, what do you expect?

Hmm. I like him...seems I'm in the minority...he's still kind of randomly hot too :lol:

Thanks for your advice evryone.

I found a couple of good sites with lots of helpful information, helps me understand it a little better

Secret Shame - http://www.palace.net/~llama/psych/injury.html

Selfinjury.net - http://www.selfinjury.net/

Self-Injury: A struggle - http://www.self-injury.net/

Psyke Forums - http://forum.psyke.org/index.php

The thing is, Daniel, I really don't think she is an attention seeker. She told me, when I wouldn't let her leave my room until she had, that she has done this for five years and I am the first person who has ever found out. She showed me scars on her legs, stomach, and top of her arms where she had done it, and I just wanted to hold her and never let her go. She told me a lot of personal stuff which I won't write here as it's not fair on her. but I really don't think she wants attention. Quite the opposite in fact. I really feel for her to be honest. I don't think she's a manipulative attention seeker at all, I know some cutters are, but I don't think she is. I don't know, she's just not like that

Well I know for a fact she is not an attention seeker. TBH, she'd never have told me had I not seen some cuts by accident whilst she was getting changed in my room, I sorta made her tell me. She has a lot of shite going on. I wish I could help her.

So yeah...a friend of mine just told me she cuts herself. I don't really know what to think or say or do. I'm not sure of my opinions on it, it's a little strange, not something i've ever thought about before.

What are your views on it?

thanks..how does she make the most crappy songs so bloody good!

I know...

If you want some of the live recordings go to http://www.hereinmyhead.com/sounds/ not from the glasgow show but theres some really nice stuff here

Flash I love you

Flash...Flash I love you....But we only have fourteen hours to save the Earth

Here's the set list...

Original Sinsuality

Father Lucifer

Cars and Guitars

Northern Lad

Jamaica Inn

Cooling

Bells For Her

Nothing Ever Happens (Del Amitri cover)

Turn (Travis cover)

Ruby Through The Looking-Glass

Marianne

Mother Revolution

Yes, Anastasia

The Beekeeper

Silent All These Years

Merman

Twinkle

Toast

Hey Jupiter

Anyone know if anyone recorded the covers she did? Me wants them....was a v.v.v.good show.