The thing is, Daniel, I really don't think she is an attention seeker. She told me, when I wouldn't let her leave my room until she had, that she has done this for five years and I am the first person who has ever found out. She showed me scars on her legs, stomach, and top of her arms where she had done it, and I just wanted to hold her and never let her go. She told me a lot of personal stuff which I won't write here as it's not fair on her. but I really don't think she wants attention. Quite the opposite in fact. I really feel for her to be honest. I don't think she's a manipulative attention seeker at all, I know some cutters are, but I don't think she is. I don't know, she's just not like that