i second Rass and Tav, its not about what it should be, Jesus. i'm totaly not religiouse too but it's sad to see that it's all about money. this year if i am goin gto bother going to the trouble of giving anyone a gift it will be bough after x-mas in the sales. alternitivly, ashleigh and myself will have a whole drunken weekend of making pepermint creams! thoughtfull, from the heart, and damb good fun too make.