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[Penny]

do you believe in soul mates? and what exactly is a soul mate to you?

[Tony Marlin]

I believe in Otis


I belive in soul mates too though, despite never meeting one

I think we all have hundreds people out there who are potential soul mates. The chances of meeting one of them are quite good, we just have to go all in when we're delt a good hand.

That sounds quite cheesy, I'm not even sure if it makes sense.

Originally Posted by Tony Marlin

[IMG] I'm not even sure if it makes sense.

yeah! you're right!

[Fluffy]

i dont know if i belive in soul mates, but i do belive there are people out there who are good for you.

there is nothing like the feeling of real love, and knowing you are loved back.

[Jake Wifebeater]

Originally Posted by Fluffy

i dont know if i belive in soul mates, but i do belive there are people out there who are good for you.

there is nothing like the feeling of real love, and knowing you are loved back.

That's spot on, well said missus.

From bitter, personal experience, I also know that some people are extremely bad for you and do their damnedest to make you as miserable, self-obsessed, neurotic, unhinged, spoilt, petulant, petty, sulky, moody, irritating, cretinous, unpleasant, nippy, nagging and joyless as themselves. Had a lucky escape or three over the years.

That said, been in a relationship for over a year now and acquired a daughter into the bargain! The best year of my life.

[Leckie Gilman]

Well done that's rad.

[psydoll]

Originally Posted by Jake The Ape

That said, been in a relationship for over a year now and acquired a daughter into the bargain!

Oh Ebay, what won't you sell?

[NARC]

Jake, surely having a daughter and being in Spike Pile Driver is a contradiction in terms?

I don't believe in soul mates though. I guess you could get bogged down in the whole determinism argument, that it was "meant to be", but I don't really like the idea that I'm just a person that's there to be inevitably paired off. If it happens, it happens, but if it doesn't, it doesn't.

*grouch*

[Lester Burnham]

I'm so and so on this one. I think there are people who are good for you and people who are bad for you. If it is meant to be then it is meant to be... I think the problems occur when the feelings are unbalanced and one loves the other more than the other loves them. That's fucking horrible, I've been there and it's such an awful feeling.

I think that both parties need to realise what the other needs in order to make a relationship work, honesty is key, being open about your feelings is important and of course affection is high on my list (that's just me personally though) there's nothing like going home to a cuddle after a shitty day at work.

Your lover should also be your friend and you should be able to just relax and have fun with them.

[Flash@TMB]

Yes. That's all I'm saying.